tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27612445.post520365816092715248..comments2024-02-22T22:14:28.796-06:00Comments on The Wild Reed: A "Truly Queer Theory" on SexMichael J. Baylyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03087458490602152648noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27612445.post-9944597637770208872012-06-28T18:31:13.656-05:002012-06-28T18:31:13.656-05:00I'm not sure I really understand this. Is this...I'm not sure I really understand this. Is this author simply saying that although being very promiscous will leave you feeling down you don't have to be completely monogamous either. Is he saying that it's just a matter of degree, and of finding a middle way?<br /><br />His blog seems to have been abandoned or hacked.Faith and Fatherlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04064247477101955875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27612445.post-85510849820604560442011-05-31T10:23:23.698-05:002011-05-31T10:23:23.698-05:00Great post MIchael. I do think Gay Species is on ...Great post MIchael. I do think Gay Species is on to the right thing. We are accustomed, socially, to only seeing sexual expression at two poles - promiscuity or monogamy. There is a mid-space I think where real and deep beauty occurs, maybe is created. "In this twilight one simply "plays" in the truest sense of the word. Conversation, stroking, laughing, erotic pleasures, but only tinged with a hint of actual sex. . . ." I wonder sometimes whether queer love (non-procreative) is best expressed with just the barest amount of sex.brian gerardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08322449604483729842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27612445.post-32173301694339960732011-05-30T23:33:00.533-05:002011-05-30T23:33:00.533-05:00Interesting article...
As a straight woman--and t...Interesting article...<br /><br />As a straight woman--and that is my only qualifications onthis subject--there may also be the distinctions of how men and women view sex. I remember years ago the lesbian woman I worked for as a housesitter said only another women really KNOWS how to touch a woman..not just physically but emotionally. Men may feel the same way.<br /><br />In my wild oat-sowing days before I became a chaste single Catholic woman I was in search of the elusive "perfect orgasm" that everyone seems to write about. The right time, the right place, the right person, the right time of the month, never seemed to come together, as elusive as the planets aligning. Maybe sex just is what it is , and not what the romance novels or movies drum it up to be.<br /><br />Nice visiting your blog Michael...I'll stop by from time to time.<br /><br />PS for the record I'm straight and always will be but love and support my LGBT friends.3puddytatshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15262778035877473976noreply@blogger.com