Thursday, May 14, 2015

LGBTQ+ Catholic Youth Summit to Proceed Despite Chancery's Misstep

Sadly for some, this post could aptly be titled: How to ensure our youth join the documented exodus of Catholics from the church.

Why? Well, let me explain by first noting that the recently established LGBTQ+ Catholic Student Coalition is a student-run initiative that describes itself as "a group of individual students from Catholic schools in Minnesota, and Catholic identified individuals who attend public or non-Catholic private schools, who are interested in advancing LGBTQ+ equity in their schools and local communities."

The inspiring mission of this student-led coalition is to "create genuine, open conversation about LGBTQ+ issues at Catholic schools for faculty, staff, administrators, and students in Minnesota, and a safer, more equitable Catholic school environment for all students, particularly LGBTQ+ identified students."

Members of the coalition come from four of the eleven Twin Cities metro-area Catholic high schools: Benilde-St. Margaret's, Holy Family, Academy of Holy Angels, and Totino Grace.

Creating safe spaces

This Saturday, May 16, 2015, the LGBTQ+ Catholic Student Coalition, with support from OutFront MN and the Justice Office of the Sister's of St. Joseph of Carondelet and Consociates – St. Paul Province, is hosting an event that's being billed as the "first annual LGBTQ+ Catholic student summit."

Creating safe spaces for LGBTQ+ people of faith is the main goal of the summit, one that the coalition describes as "a day of conversation, learning, and action to improve the climate for LGBTQ+ individuals in Catholic environments, and the lives of LGBTQ+ Catholics in LGBTQ+ ones."

The day will begin with Mass, followed by a keynote address by Kristen Ostendorf, who, in 2013, was fired from her position of English/religion teacher at Totino-Grace Catholic High School after she came out to colleagues as gay and "happily in a relationship" (Ostendorf now teaches English at Highland Park Senior High in St. Paul). The summit's afternoon session will be devoted to a series of student-led workshops on creating safe spaces in Catholic schools, the experience of being LGBT and Catholic, and how to talk to people of faith about LGBT issues. The coalition and its partners expect more than 200 Catholic students from around the state to attend Saturday's summit.

The chancery responds

The young people who comprise the LGBTQ+ Catholic Student Coalition are quite impressive, wouldn't you say? I mean, they and their efforts are "signs and wonders" of the good news of Jesus, of God's transforming love breaking through into the world via the actions of people mindful and responsive to this love both in the depths of their being and in all aspects of creation. These young people are clearly embodying the gospel values of concern for the marginalized, compassion, inclusion, and justice. Also, their efforts to facilitate respectful dialogue reflect the leadership style of Pope Francis. Given all of this, one would think that these students and their efforts would be supported by the clerical leadership of the archdiocese. Not so.

You see, Saturday's LGBTQ+ Catholic Youth Summit was originally scheduled to take place at Christ the King Catholic Church in Minneapolis. However, earlier this week the LGBTQ+ Catholic Student Coalition posted the following message on its Facebook page:

The LGBTQ+ Catholic Student Coalition regrets to announce that on orders from the Chancery of the Archdiocese of Minneapolis and St. Paul, Christ the King Catholic Church is no longer able to host the LGBTQ+ Catholic Youth Summit.

Fortunately, Edina Community Lutheran Church (4113 W 54th St, Edina) has graciously agreed to host the event this Saturday, May 16.

While we are deeply disappointed that we are no longer able to host this event at a Catholic parish, the decision from the chancery clearly demonstrates the need for this event and the conversations we will be having on Saturday at the summit.

Now more than ever it’s important to come together as a community in solidarity! Can’t wait to see you all there.

In a statement to The Column, Archbishop John C. Nienstedt said he “intervened” in the decision of Christ the King to host the event because the forum is being “led by a speaker who has publicly dissented from Church teaching. . . . We are concerned that the content of the proposed presentation will contradict Church teaching, leaving those in attendance, especially young people, confused about the truth of the teaching long after the May 16th presentation.”

Another egregious misstep

Of course, this type of action from the chancery is not new; in relation to LGBT issues, it dates back to October 2007 and the banning of 82-year-old “cradle Catholic” Robert Curoe and his lesbian daughter, Carol, from speaking at St. Frances Cabrini Catholic Church about their book, Are There Closets in Heaven? A Catholic Father and Lesbian Daughter Share Their Story. (For my thoughts at the time on this action by the chancery, click here.) Indeed, when it comes to questioning voices and differing opinions around issues of sexuality and church reform, the general response of the chancery under Archbishop Nienstedt (who, it should be noted, remains under investigation for allegations of sexual misconduct with adult men) has been to censor, denounce, and ban. In the context of our shared journey as Catholics, such actions are egregious missteps on the part of our clerical leadership.

One can only speculate on the impact that the chancery's banning of the summit from official Catholic property will have on the young members of the LGBTQ+ Catholic Student Coalition. Their Facebook statement puts a positive spin on things, but I'm sure that many of the young people involved are feeling hurt and rejected by the message that has been sent by the chancery's directive.

This is significant, not to mention relevant to the alternative title to this post: How to ensure our youth join the documented exodus of Catholics from the church. For as Jane C. Timm notes in her MSNBC article from last year:

One third of young people who left organized religion did so because of anti-gay teachings or treatment within their churches, according to a new study.

While not surprising—it’s no secret that younger Americans are more accepting of gay people—it puts a number on the cost anti-gay policies can have on organizations.

A full 31% of young people (ages 18 to 33) who left organized religion said “negative teachings” or “negative treatment” of gay people was a “somewhat important” or “very important” factor in their departure, as surveyed by the Public Religion Research Institute.

A strong majority (58%) of Americans also said religious groups are “alienating” young people by “being too judgmental on gay and lesbian issues.” A full 70% of young people said the same.

In response to the chancery's latest misstep, the Catholic Coalition for Church Reform is encouraging the members of its lay network to "write to Archbishop Nienstedt and tell him what you think of his decision to order Christ the King parish to cancel a GLBTQ youth event."

Archbishop John C. Nienstedt
226 Summit Avenue
St. Paul MN 55102

Phone: (651) 291-4400

For more information about the LGBTQ+ Catholic Youth Summit, including how to register, click here.

Related Off-site Links:
Archbishop Nienstedt Blocks Church from Hosting LGBT Catholic Youth Event – Andy Birkey (, May 15, 2015).
Forced Venue Change for LGBTQ+ Catholic Students' Summit Highlights Need for Support, Says Organizer – Jim Walsh (MinnPost, May 15, 2015).
Students Organize Youth Summit to Be Held This Weekend – Grace Gyolai (Knight Errant, May 14, 2015).
First Annual LGBT Catholic Student Summit to Be Held Saturday – Andy Birkey (, May 12, 2015).
Why LGBT Adolescents Are Still More Likely to Face Bullying, Including Social Exclusion and Physical Harm – Andrew M. Seaman (Reuters via HuffPost Gay Voices, May 7, 2015).
Shaping Men and Women for Others in Catholic Schools – Andy Otto (Millennial, May 18, 2015).
America’s Changing Religious Landscape: Christians Decline Sharply as Share of Population; Unaffiliated and Other Faiths Continue to Grow – Pew Research Center (May 12, 2015).
Big Drop in Share of Americans Calling Themselves Christian – Nate Cohn (New York Times, May 12, 2015).
Study Finds Significant Decline in Minnesotans Identifying Themselves as Catholic – Joe Kimball (MinnPost, May 12, 2015).
How the Church Can Get Millennials Back – Christopher J. Hale (Time, May 14, 2015).

See also the previous Wild Reed posts:
Choosing to Stay
GSAs and the Catholic High School Setting
Dave Navarro to LGBT Youth: "We Need Your Voice"
An Inspiring Event
The Two Editorials that Benilde-St. Margaret's Catholic High School Doesn't Want You to Read
How Times Have Changed
CPCSM and the Archdiocese of St. Paul-Minneapolis – Part 3: Archdiocese Defends CPCSM's Efforts on Behalf of Gay Students
CPCSM and the Archdiocese of St. Paul-Minneapolis – Part 4: More on the Archdiocese's Efforts to Defend the Addressing of Gay Issues in Catholic High Schools
Remembering and Reclaiming a Wise, Spacious, and Holy Understanding of Homosexuality

Image: Felicia Pruitt Brown.


Mary Lynn Murphy said...

Thank you for this article, Michael. I'm wondering why the parishes, especially open ones like Christ the King, don't just ignore their pedophile-protecting Archbishop and proceed with the conference on their own turf.

Time to act up people! Take a clue from Black Lives Matter. Say "NO" to the Archbishop's brand of spirit-searing discrimination. What can he do? Send everybody to jail?

Stand up folks! Talk back! Make the change you believe in!

Paula Ruddy said...

The Archbishop is concerned about religious freedom for Catholics in relation to the power of U.S. laws, but does he understand the relation of freedom and the use of his own power within the Catholic Church?

His action in countermanding the decisions of the parish and the student planners in this event is a violation of their freedom. Of course, he has the power to make them buckle as well as the authority to use that power, but is it a wise and just use of the power to intervene in the free decisions of adult parish administrators and student planners?

The Archbishop can not in the future say one credible word about religious freedom because he has demonstrated a gross misunderstanding of the use of his own power to coerce behavior. I'm also wondering if any word of his about love, unity, or justice can carry any weight. It makes me weep because I had hope that he had gained insight over the last several years of struggle with the GLBT community.

Michael J. Bayly said...

The following comment by Stephen Albert was left at The Progressive Catholic Voice, where this article is also posted.

"This is a dangerous time for the Catholic Church, as it isn't an institution that deals well with change OR lay opinions (or, even worse, changing lay opinions), and yet it now has both in large amounts. As for the students, well, In the end & quite sadly, these wonderful young people will eventually have to make a choice between being their authentic selves or leaving the Roman Catholic Church, as this story is yet more proof that they can't have both. An old saying goes "Never stay where you are not wanted", which rings true here. The good news is that there is life beyond the Catholic Church for these students."

Anonymous said...

Perhaps the message for the Archbishop is that gay lives matter.


Michael J. Bayly said...

Following is the comment that Mary Lynn Murphy posted at The Progressive Catholic Voice:

"As usual, I am disgusted by the Archbishop’s behavior. Yes, the parish got itself in this box because it lacked the guts to follow through . . . when the planners must have known that the Archbishop might slip from the shadows of the abuse crisis - long enough to crack down on gay kids again. When will the people wise up? As a parent of an LGBT person, I am impatient with cowering parents and supportive church communities who WILL NOT STAND UP on this intimate and critical issue when young people need them to do so. The Archbishop is not the only one who has let gay kids down. All of the parishes, (not just Christ the King), the parish priests, Catholic school educators, parents, and all who bow to the Archbishop in regard to this conference and all other LGBT related incidences, are also at fault. Time to rise up, end the silence, hold the conferences wherever and whenever the people please, and let the leadership of the laity, and the young people themselves shine through."