Last Friday I attended the Celebration of Life for my dear friend Brigid McDonald, CSJ, who died October 2 at the age of 94.
Brigid was one of the renowned and much-loved McDonald sisters, four biological sisters who all joined the Sisters of St Joseph of Carondelet – St. Paul Province.
Eldest sister Rita passed in October 2023.
You may recall I had the honor of delivering a “homily reflection” at the funeral of second eldest sister Kate in February 2024.
The last (and youngest) of the McDonald sisters, Jane, is currently in hospice care at Carondelet Village in St. Paul.
Above: The McDonald Sisters (from left) Kate, Brigid, Rita, and Jane on their parents’ farm near Watertown, MN, back in the day.
As I’ve previously noted, I have Brigid to thank for my involvement in the Twin Cities justice and peace community. Our mutual interest in Celtic spirituality brought us together; we both attended a class on the topic at the College of St. Catherine in the fall of 1996. She invited me to join the weekly vigil outside of the corporate headquarters of Alliant Techsystems, which at that time was Minnesota’s largest military munitions contractor.
Left: With Brigid (right) and our mutual friend Sue Ann at my 50th birthday celebration in October 2015.
As I note on my Faces of Resistance website, it was my participation in this weekly vigil and the community that faithfully gathered for it every Wednesday morning come rain or shine, that introduced me to the crucial role that militarism plays in U.S. foreign policy. It also made me aware of many other justice and peace issues, their underlying causes, and various creative and nonviolent responses and alternatives to them. This awareness compelled me to get involved in a range of social justice issues and to creatively document via photography, the people I encountered and the events I witnessed, participated in, and, in some cases, helped facilitate.
Such activity was very energizing and ensured the building of lasting friendships with many interesting and inspiring individuals, including, of course, Brigid and her sisters.
Above: Standing at left with Brigid outside the Hopkins, Minnesota corporate headquarters of Alliant Techsystems, where with other citizen-activists from 1996 to 2011 we would vigil each and every Wednesday morning for peace and an end to war profiteering.
Spun off from the Honeywell corporation in 1991, Alliant Techsystems was at one point the 23rd largest supplier to the Department of Defense of component parts for weapons ranging from cluster bombs to guidance systems for Cruise and Pershing nuclear missiles. It also had international sales offices in 33 countries – including Israel, Saudi Arabia, Jordan, Malaysia, Argentina, Brazil, Chile, India, Pakistan, Greece and Turkey. At one time, the corporation was the largest manufacturer of antipersonnel landmines in the United States.
Left: Jane McDonald at the Alliant Tech vigil, July 1997. “The drum beat is a symbol of the heartbeat of the earth and the pulse of the people,” said Jane when I took this picture for my Faces of Resistance exhibit. “It calls us to conscience; calls us to honor the earth, its resources, and its people. Working to stop military madness is part of this honoring.”
My parents, Gordon and Margaret Bayly, visited me in the Twin Cities from Australia in July 2005. In the image above, Mum (center) and Brigid (right) are pictured with (from left) Marilyn, Betty, and Pepperwolf at the weekly Alliant Tech vigil.
Brigid and her sisters’ mother was also named Margaret. I like that we have that in common.

Above: Kate, Rita and Brigid with Marv Davidov, Barb Mishler and Betty McKenzie, CSJ.
Marv (1931-2012) was a longtime justice and peace organizer and activist in the Twin Cities. A Freedom Rider in the early 1960s, Marv later founded the Honeywell Project in 1968 and the Midwest Institute for Social Transformation (MIST) in the 1980s.
Above: That’s Brigid and Jane beating their drums at the Vigil for Solidarity with LGBT Catholics, an event that saw over three hundred people gather at the Cathedral of St. Paul in St. Paul, Minnesota on December 2, 2007.
We gathered to express our disagreement with then-Coadjutor Archbishop John Nienstedt’s declaration that people who encourage and support their LGBT family members and friends are “cooperating in a grave evil.”
All four McDonald sisters are strong allies of the LGBTQ community, and for many years Brigid served with me on the board of the Catholic Pastoral Committee on Sexual Minorities (CPCSM).

Above and below: Taking time out with Brigid and a number of our mutual friends at a local piano bar – May 18, 2008.

And there were no sad songs for us, no siree. Instead we led the crowd in some rousing anti-war songs, which was no doubt a first for this particular establishment!

In the summer of 2008 my older brother Chris and his family visited the Twin Cities. Pictured above are my nephews Mitchell, Liam, and Brendan with Marguerite Corcoran, CSJ and Rita McDonald, CSJ.

Above: With Brigid and my nephew Brendan – August 1, 2008. During the visit of my brother and his family, Brigid arranged for a lovely pool party at the home of our mutual friend Molly Culligan.


Above: With Brigid and our friends Molly Culligan and Michael Zieghan at 24th annual Bloomsday celebration at the University Club in St. Paul – June 16, 2009.
Bloomsday in St. Paul also celebrated a little something Australian as Brigid, Molly and Michael (who accompanied us on guitar) joined with me in a rousing rendition of “The Wild Colonial Boy.”
Brigid also sang beautiful renditions of “The Green Fields of France” and “Little Town In The Old County Down,” while Molly performed her famed Molly Bloom soliloquy.
As well as singing “The Wild Colonial Boy,” I also read an excerpt from Jamie O’Neill’s novel, At Swim, Two Boys. For more about this book (and to read the excerpt I shared), see my 2008 post, A Beautiful Novel.
The following video shows Brigid and her sisters singing their appreciation for Marv Davidov in 2010. Brigid was an incredible lyricist! She could change the lyrics to any song to fit any kind of celebratory occasion . . . or protest.
Above: At the 2014 Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet Ministries Foundation Gala at the Minneapolis Hilton. Pictured with me from left: Rita, Kate, Brigid, and our mutual friend Kathleen.
This annual event helps raise money for the St. Mary’s Health Clinics. These clinics are an ecumenical ministry of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet and are located throughout the Twin Cities metro area. They offer primary care, referrals to specialists, laboratory, radiology, in-patient, and prescription medications – all free to patients who otherwise would have no access to medical care.
Above: On the afternoon of Friday, January 30, 2015 I hosted a tea party for a number of the wise and inspiring women in my life. Pictured from left: Brigid; Marguerite Corcoran, CSJ; Rita McDonald, CSJ; Theresa O’Brien, CSJ; Paula Ruddy; Rita Quigley; Florence Steichen, CSJ; and Kate McDonald, CSJ.
Above: Brigid with Peggy O'Connell, the actress who portrayed her in Doris Baizley’s 2019 play, Sisters of Peace.
Above: Brigid’s annual St. Patrick’s Day party – March 17, 2016. Pictured from left: Darlene, Kathleen, Brigid, Tom, and Kate.
Above: Another one of Brigid’s St. Patrick’s Day parties. This one was in 2012.
Above: With Brigid at a tea (and mimosa) party I hosted on January 15, 2017. (For more images and commentary, click here.)
Above: Brigid with a photo of herself as a child having tea with her dog! This photo was taken at my January 20, 2018 tea party.
Following is Brigid’s eulogy, delivered by her cousin Mike last Friday.
Good morning, I am Mike Neaton, one of the many favorite cousins.
Envision a 19-year-old, overwhelmed by the Vietnam conflict, standing on a desolate railroad track to help interfere with ammunition transfer. In sight is a little woman approaching and soon beaming with a greeting. . . . Sister Brigid enters my life as she has so many others.
Brigid is many layered . . . a second grade teacher who could identify with a child, combining lessons and play. Often teaching with Gerbil races, songs, and shenanigans. An example of kids being in on a secret happed when she greeted parents at the rear of the classroom. She would have a mannequin hand up the sleeve of her habit, and when ending the conversation, she used it to shake hands and leave it with the visitor.
Everyone was made to feel supported and that extended to all those underserved.
Brigid evolved from the religion of “expected obligation,” expanding to a spirituality of humanism anchored to justice and love. It was nurtured in the Spirit of St Stephen’s Community.
Defiant to keep her religion alive. When she was refused the host because she was wearing a rainbow sash, Brigid reached in the chalice, snatched a host, and declared: “I came for Jesus and he is coming with me!”
In her commitment to fight against the capitalistic-propelled military, she spent countless hours joined with Women Against Military Madness (WAAM), AlliantTech protesters, Vets for Peace, those protesting for Free Palestine and gay rights, and against Line 3, and many others to bring justice. She developed deep ties with many, especially her siblings. Brigid devoted her life to protecting ordinary people and making change.
Several years ago at the Irish Festival ticket booth, three of us were passing out WAAM flyers. A young cop asked us to move to the public sidewalk sixty feet down the incline. Mary Beaudoin and I obeyed. Brigid moved only eight feet. The cop told her again to move to the sidewalk. Reluctantly, she moved another eight feet. Out of frustration the young cop said he was getting his superior. Hearing this we marched up to encourage de-escalation. I looked up to see an older beefy 6’2” cop right out of Heat of the Night towering over Brigid and getting right in her face . . . and then he kissed her.
Shocked, I asked what in the hell just happened. Brigid’s response: “I was his favorite 2nd grade teacher.”
For many years she organized a huge St Patrick’s party; a true Irish event – complete with a singing dog. The “parade contingency” was called the “Brigidtine Society.” We championed to bring back the snakes (a symbol of female power). Each year she instructed us to enter the parade at the precise number of 33-and-a-half, unknowing we were illegal; non-permitted . . . just contributing to the merriment.
Not to be overlooked with all her zest for life, she was a serious activist. I ask the activists present who have stood with Brigid for justice please stand and share a moment of silence in unity. You will carry Brigid’s spirit forward.
Thank you.
I conclude this tribute to Brigid with the following 5-minute extract from the 2003 documentary, Four Sisters for Peace. Created by a class of sixth to eighth grade students at Southside Family School in Minneapolis working with their teacher Susie Oppenheim and the artist Media Mike Hazard, this film is rated “R” – for rebellious.
See also the following chronologically-ordered posts:
• Beginning the Process (2006)
• The Inspiring Brigid McDonald, CSJ
• Reflections on Associate/Consociate Programs by Joan Chittister
• Remembering Rita Steinhagen, CSJ – 1928-2006
• Making My Consociate Commitment (2008)
• Celebrating Bloomsday 2009 in St. Paul (and with Kate Bush)
• A Visit to the Motherhouse of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet – St. Louis Province
• The Vatican and U.S. Women Religious (2009)
• Joseph of Dreams
• Honoring Kathleen Judge, CSJ – 1935-2013
• In Wintry Minnesota, An Australian Afternoon Tea
• Three Winter Gatherings
• Celebrating the “Sisters of Peace”
• Remembering Rita McDonald, CSJ – 1922-2023
• Remembering Kate McDonald, CSJ – 1929-2024
• Two Responses to Today’s Mass Shooting in Minneapolis
• 20 Years of Saying “Yes” to the Charism of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet

















































