Sunday, April 25, 2010

In Minnesota, an Early Spring


Spring has come as much as three weeks early to parts of Minnesota - including the Twin Cities of St. Paul/Minneapolis.

I captured the following images this past week, when riding my bicycle around my neighborhood in St. Paul, and across the Mississippi River into South Minneapolis. Enjoy!









See also the previous Wild Reed posts:
Spring's Return
A Springtime Prayer
Waiting in Repose for Spring's Awakening Kiss
Spring Garden (2009)
"Jubilation is My Name": Spring in Minnesota (2008)
A Springtime Visitor
Spring in Minnesota (2007)
In the Footsteps of Spring


Images: Michael J. Bayly.

Saturday, April 24, 2010

Quote of the Day

The law signed today by Arizona Gov. Brewer is a social and racial sin, and should be denounced as such by people of faith and conscience across the nation. It is not just about Arizona, but about all of us, and about what kind of country we want to be. It is not only mean-spirited - it will be ineffective and will only serve to further divide communities in Arizona, making everyone more fearful and less safe. This radical new measure, which crosses many moral and legal lines, is a clear demonstration of the fundamental mistake of separating enforcement from comprehensive immigration reform. Enforcement without reform of the system is merely cruel. Enforcement without compassion is immoral. Enforcement that breaks up families is unacceptable. This law will make it illegal to love your neighbor in Arizona, and will force us to disobey Jesus and his gospel. We will not comply.


Image: Michael Bayly.

Istanbul (Part 3)

Continuing with The Wild Reed’s series on Istanbul, I share this evening some wonderfully descriptive excerpts from Mary Lee Settle’s 1991 book, Turkish Reflections: A Biography of a Place.

Not only do these excerpts provide a compelling historical overview of the city we now call Istanbul and the ancient region of Anatolia that is now part of modern-day Turkey, but a colorful description of “the Father of Turkey,”
Mustafa Kemal Atatürk.

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Anatolia was the home of some of the oldest civilizations in the world, kingdoms built on kingdoms like the strata of geological time. Noah landed on one of its highest mountains, Ararat. Çatal Höyük is a central Anatolian city eight thousand years old. The Hittite Empire predated the Greek city-states along the coast by more than a thousand years. It was the major power in the center of Anatolia when Troy was besieged by provincial tribesmen from the mainland of Greece. In the second millennium the Greeks began the colonies along the Aegean coast that would become their city-states. Alexander the Great conquered it, Persia ruled it, the Romans stabilized it for fifteen hundred years, and then lost it.

In A.D. 330, the Roman Emperor Constantine the Great moved the capital of the Roman Empire from Rome to the small seaport of Byzantium, on the Bosphorus between Asia and Europe, rebuilt it, and renamed it New Rome. It was known almost at once all over the Roman world as Constantinople. His empire was not thought of by its own citizens, or by its contemporary enemies for the eight hundred years of its survival, as anything but Rome; but through the years historians, for convenience, have called it by the name we know now – the Byzantine Empire.

. . . The eleventh century brought the greatest change there had been for a thousands years on the plains that rose behind the Aegean coastal mountains. Anatolia had been Christian ever since Christianity had been made the state religion by the Emperor Constantine in the fourth century. With the conquering of the Byzantine army by the Seljuks, Christianity was replaced by Islam, a new and far more tolerant religion after the schismatic and heretical wars of the Christians.

It was on “the dreadful day,” as the Byzantines called it, Friday, August 19, 1017, at the Battle of Manzikert that the Seljuk Turks, newly converted to Islam, broke the power of the Byzantine Empire. After Manzikert, the popes and the clergy inflamed the religious and the adventurous impulse in Europe, and, led by itinerant monks and mercenaries, the First Crusade met the Seljuks and was defeated by them. It was in the years of the Crusades, when an infidel enemy was needed to rouse Christian passions, that there began the Eurocentric misunderstanding of the Turks. They have been partly unknown ever since.

In the thirteenth century the Mongols began their slow and inexorable invasion of Anatolia, and the face of the high land changed again, and again and again, as the Seljuk kingdom broke apart under family feuds and Mongol onslaughts.

There was the Black Plague and the country nearly died, and what came out of it, in the fourteenth century, was a line of ghazis that ruled a broken land of quarreling emirates. One of the emirates was that of the tribe of the Osmanli, and it grew into the Ottoman Empire, to last another six hundred years.

. . . Then in the twentieth century came the last ghazi who has appeared, who was able to defeat the British and Australian forces at Gallipoli, go east almost to the Russian border, come back with an army of survivors of civil war and Ottoman neglect that had been defeated by the Allies, and force the retreat of the European-backed Greeks from central Anatolia near Ankara, all the way back to the Aegean Sea.

In many ways the last has been, maybe because we have been able to see him at work, the most astounding of Turkey’s ghazis. The presence of Mustafa Kemal Atatürk, which means “the Father of the Turks,” still permeates Turkey, long after his death in 1938.

Here is what The Cambridge History of Islam says about Atatürk: “He was a strong man, a ruler by the virtue of his training, but not a dictator. He detested the title and continuously stressed his allegiance to national sovereignty. Atatürk was a soldier-ruler and as such had a keen understanding of the virtues and defects of his people. Unlike the Ottoman ruling class, he used his insight for the people’s own good. In so doing he did not beg for popularity, but ordered, punished, and rewarded with the habit of a soldier used to obedience. But beneath the determined appearance there was a man, the orphan who was raised in the healthy, human atmosphere of the village, and then the small Balkan town of Salonica. He preserved a freshness and spontaneity towards life even after he became the most powerful man in Turkey.” That could, in essence, be a description of the ghazi over a thousand years.

For seventy years, the Turks have been in love with Atatürk. When he died, and his place was taken as president by the less-charismatic İsmet İnönü, a woman in İstanbul mourned, “Turkey has lost her lover and now must make do with her husband.”


See also the previous Wild Reed posts:
Istanbul (Part 1)
Istanbul (Part 2)
“This Light Breeze That Loves Me”


Friday, April 23, 2010

Rockin' with Maxwell . . .


Music Night this evening at The Wild Reed spotlights “Til the Cops Come Knockin’,” one of my favorite tracks from Maxwell’s 1996 album Maxwell’s Urban Hang Suite.

Of this particular album, Wikipedia notes:

[Maxwell’s debut album] received generally positive reviews from most music critics who perceived it as a departure from the mainstream-oriented R&B of the time, earning Maxwell several accolades and comparisons to soul singer Marvin Gaye.

Maxwell's Urban Hang Suite had a considerable impact on Maxwell's career, helping elevate his reputation to that of a sex symbol and a serious performer on the music scene. Maxwell has been credited with shaping the “neo soul” movement that rose to prominence during the late 1990s. Along with D’Angelo’s Brown Sugar (1995) and Erykah Badu’s Baduizm (1997), Maxwell's Urban Hang Suite has been recognized by music writers for providing commercial visibility to neo soul. It has been cited by critics as Maxwell’s greatest work and remains as his best-selling release with domestic sales of over two million copies.

I have to say that I think Maxwell is one of the most beautiful and sensual male singers out there. And I say this not just because of the subject matter of his songs or the way he sings them, but also because of the way he moves – as you’ll see for yourself in the music video below.

For me, it all comes down to appreciating a guy who’s secure enough in his masculinity to get in touch with his feminine energy. And remember, we all have both within! Maxwell is clearly one such secure dude. Note, for instance, how he makes compelling use of his falsetto. This, coupled with his fluid body movements, ensure that tenderness vulnerability, and romantic (as well as sexual) longing are all sensually conveyed.

And none of it detracts from his masculinity. I mean, you don’t doubt for a minute you’re watching a man - even when he's rolling luxuriously (and rather submissively) on the floor! Everything, in fact, works beautifully together – like the rich, multi-layered soul music Maxwell is celebrated for creating. Yes, he’s definitely my kind of guy!

And you’re definitely in for something special with this particular song and video. Enjoy!






For more of Maxwell at The Wild Reed, see:
Maxwell’s Welcome Return
Maxwell in Concert
The Return of Maxwell


See also the previous Wild Reed posts:
A Fresh Take on Masculinity
Ian Thorpe’s “Difficult Decision”
The Inherent Sensuality of Roman Catholicism
A Glorious Pop Moment


Musical artists previously featured at The Wild Reed: Enigma, Yvonne Elliman, Lenny Kravitz, Marty Rhone, Don Henley, Propeller Heads and Shirley Bassey, Stephen Gately, Nat King Cole, Enrique Iglesias, Helen Reddy, Australian Crawl, PJ and Duncan, Cass Elliot, The Church, Pet Shop Boys and Dusty Springfield, Wall of Voodoo, Stephen “Tin Tin” Duffy, Pink Floyd, Kate Ceberano, Judith Durham, Wendy Matthews, Buffy Sainte-Marie, 1927, Mavis Staples, Maxwell, Joan Baez, Dave Stewart & Friends, Tee Set, Darren Hayes, Suede, Wet, Wet, Wet, Engelbert Humperdinck, The Cruel Sea, Shirley Bassey, Loretta Lynn & Jack White, Maria Callas, Foo Fighters, Rosanne Cash, Jenny Morris, Scissor Sisters, Kate Bush, Rufus Wainwright, and Dusty Springfield.

Photo of the Day



Image: Michael Bayly.

Happy Birthday, Mitchell


In Australia today my nephew Mitchell celebrates his 14th birthday!


Happy Birthday, Mitch!

The photos that accompany this post were taken in January of this year during my visit home to Australia.






Above (from left): Sami (Mitch's cousin), Tim (Mitch's uncle and my younger brother), Mitch, Liam (one of Mitch's three brothers), and Chris (Mitch's dad and my older brother).



Above: Mitchell and his million dollar forehand!



Above: Mitchell and his brothers. From left: Brendan, Ryan, Mitchell, and Liam.

Thursday, April 22, 2010

A Message of Hope (and a Call to Action) from the Land Down-Under

In response to the recent coming out of former Olympic swimmer Daniel Kowalski, a young Australian gay university student named Max Denton has written a thoughtful and hopeful op-ed for The Age newspaper in which he reflects upon being gay in Australia today and shares his belief that the one thing that unites gay people in all our diversity is the simple understanding that “we are more than what most people believe we are.”

Max also sounds a clarion call: “If gay people do not have their rights, it is because we are yet to take them,” he says. “The civil rights champions of the ’60s didn’t wait for their rights to be given to them; they stood up and demanded them. We must do the same.”

Max’s poignant and rousing op-ed is printed in its entirety below (with thanks to my friend Mark for bringing it to my attention).

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Coming Out of the Closet
Need Not Be An Olympic Effort

By Max Denton

The Age
April 20, 2010



Gay rights are there for the taking,
and now is a good time to do it.


I’m humbled when I read stories about those in the spotlight – most recently Daniel Kowalski – coming out. I can remember how hard it was two years ago, aged 18, to tell my family and friends that I was gay; I have no conception of how hard it must be to do it in the public eye.

That said, I feel it’s happening more and more. In the past fortnight we’ve also seen dozens of footballers – footballers! – tell the young, scared gay people of Australia that it’s OK to be who you are.

It is an exciting time to be gay in Australia. Not only is this probably the safest time, there’s also the inescapable feeling that things continue to change for the better.

Nevertheless, as a minority, we’re still stuck on the cusp of full rights and freedoms in the eyes of the law, and our peers. The lack of full acceptance means young girls and boys suffer depression and even someone as successful as Kowalski can be overcome with loneliness.

I'm not writing this because I believe I’m especially experienced or qualified to do so. In fact, I’m writing this exactly because I’m not. I’m a young, average gay kid from the outer suburbs of Melbourne who has grown up with a similar struggle to Kowalski and many, many others. I want to speak to those like me who feel we deserve more. The gay minority has the distinction of being unlike most other minorities – we do not share a common background, a common heritage or set of values. We make up the exact same proportion of every class, every race, every religion, and every nationality. We are the most eclectic minority one could imagine. We are as diverse as Australia is flat.

I believe it’s for this reason that we have found it hard to obtain equality under the law. We are mistaken into believing there is nothing that unites us besides our sexual preference. But there is one other uniting factor.

I was sitting on the train recently when two typical, masculine Australian blokes sat opposite me. Being the skinny, irrational kid that I am, I was consumed by fear, watching my movements and scared of attracting attention. After a few minutes of intently staring out the window, I looked back to find that one had draped his arm over the other and they were sharing a gentle kiss.

In that moment I understood that the thing that unites us is a simple understanding: that we are more than what most people believe we are. We are not beholden to the stereotypes. We are each and every one of us who we want to be.

We are an Olympic swimmer, an Olympic diver, a Climate Change Minister, we’re lawyers, doctors and, yes, we’re young, scared university students, too. But we all are just doing what we can with what we were given.

The movement towards gay rights is eclectic. Socially it moves forward because of actions such as those of the AFL [Australian Football League] and attitudes expressed through a Galaxy poll of a few months ago, which showed the vast majority of Australians in support of equality in marriage.

Unfortunately, politically it is a different matter. I wish I could take the easy route and blame an uninterested government or an opposition that prefers to demonise us than stand up for our rights. But part of the blame should lie with us.

If gay people do not have their rights, it is because we are yet to take them. The civil rights champions of the ’60s didn’t wait for their rights to be given to them; they stood up and demanded them. We must do the same.

It is no longer enough to join a Facebook group or sign the occasional petition. Nor is it acceptable for gay rights to be the province of fringe groups. With the support of our friends and the public, our movement for equal rights is not a fringe movement.

We need to unite; we need more leaders such as Daniel Kowalski who unabashedly declare who they are and why that’s OK; each one helps our cause. If just half the kids I see at the clubs each week turned out to a protest, we would speak with such a voice that it would drown out all opposition.

Like my humbling experience on the train, we need to stop being scared of our shadows and realise the Australia we live in is more tolerant than we may imagine. The difficulty of coming out and living out will only be overcome when we realise our rights are there for the taking. We just need to take a chance.

Max Denton is studying politics and economics at Melbourne University.


See also the previous Wild Reed posts:
Daniel Kowalski: “I Can No Longer Fight Who I Am”
Ian McKellen’s Two Great Achievements: Playing Gandalf and Coming Out
Out Gay Actor Neil Patrick Harris: “I’m Striving to Be an Example of Normalcy
“Glambert” and the New Gay Stereotype
Adam Lambert: No Surprise, But An Important Event Nonetheless
It Shouldn’t Matter, Except It Does
Matthew Mitcham: Making a Splash
Openly Gay Diver Wins Olympic Gold
Darren Hayes, Coming Out . . . Oh, and Time Travel
Ricky Martin: Well, Better Late Than Never, I Guess
Coming Out in Africa and the Middle East
To Be Gay in Iraq . . .
Coming Out: An Act of Holiness
The Triumph of Love: An Easter Reflection
A Girl Named Sara: “A Person of the Resurrection”
Soul Deep

And for my own coming out story, see The Wild Reed series, In the Footsteps of Spring:
Introduction
Part 1: The Light Within
Part 2: Shards of Summer
Part 3: Intimate Soliloquies
Part 4: Coming Out
Part 5: No Stranger Am I


Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Minnesotans Rally for Equality and Love at the State Capitol


This afternoon I attended, along with a number of other members of the Catholic Pastoral Committee on Sexual Minorities (CPCSM), OutFront Minnesota's annual "justFair" Lobby Day at the Minnesota State Capitol in St. Paul.

It was an absolutely glorious spring day, and so heartening to see such a good turn-out of folks - young people especially - willing to take a stand with and for LGBT people as they rallied for marriage equality and pro-LGBT legislation rights.

Following are photos from the Rally for Equality that took place from 1:00 - 2:00 p.m. on the Capitol Lawn. As you'll see from many of the signs that people were holding, we were present taking a stand for equality and love.



Right: Standing at right with Minneapolis Council Member Gary Schiff.

Gary was one of a number of city and state officials to speak on behalf of gay rights and marriage equality.





















Above: Philip Lowe, Jr. (center) and his partner Jason King (right).

Philip was a featured speaker at last October's CPCSM forum, “Holding the Courage Apostolate Accountable: The Catholic Church, Homosexuality, and Reparative Therapy.”



Above: My friend Paul, longtime supporter of CPCSM and former CPCSM treasurer.





Recommended Off-site Links:
Hundreds Rally for Equality in St. Paul - Andy Birkey (TheColu.mn, April 22, 2010).
2010: An Important Year for the LGBT Community; Get Involved! - Philip Lowe (TheColu.mn, January 11, 2010).


See also the previous Wild Reed posts:
At UST, a Rousing and Very Catholic Show of Support for Marriage Equality
A Catholic Voice for Marriage Equality at the State Capitol
A Catholic Presence at Gay Pride
Sen. John Marty on Marriage Equality in MN: "We Can Make It Happen"
OutFront Minnesota's 2008 Lobby Day
OutFront Minnesota's 2007 Lobby Day
A Christian Case for Same-Sex Marriage


Images: Michael Bayly.

Happy Birthday, Dad

In Australia today, my Dad celebrates his 73rd birthday.


Happy Birthday, Dad!









One of the hardest things about living so far from Australia is that I don't get to celebrate, in person, special days like today with my family. Still, each and every one of my family members are always in my thoughts and prayers - and on this particular day, my Dad especially.


I've noted previously that my brothers and I are incredibly fortunate to have Gordon James Bayly as our Dad. He is a man of integrity, compassion, and selfless service to others. We experienced and witnessed such qualities growing up in Gunnedah, and they’re still very much part of our father today.

I love you, Dad, and can’t thank you enough for all you continue to be and give to me, my brothers, our family, and so many others whose lives are touched by yours.


For some great photos of Dad through the years, click here.


See also the previous Wild Reed posts:
Congratulations, Mum and Dad!
Commemorating My Grandfather, Aub Bayly, and the Loss of the AHS Centaur
Remembering Nanna Smith
The Bayly Family - January 2010
The Bayly Family - January 2009
The Bayly Family - July 2006
Catholic Rainbow (Australian) Parents
Coming Out


Monday, April 19, 2010

At UST, a Rousing and Very Catholic Show of Support for Marriage Equality


This past Saturday, April 17, saw close to 300 people gather at the University of St. Thomas in St. Paul, MN, for a CPCSM co-sponsored event that showed support for marriage equality for same-sex couples and protested the presence on campus of two high profile anti-equality activists, Maggie Gallagher of the National Organization of Marriage (NOM) and Bishop Salvatore Cordileone of Oakland, CA. Both were invited to the Twin Cities by Archbishop John Nienstedt and the Office of Marriage, Family, and Life to address the archdiocesan “Reclaiming the Culture of Marriage and Life” spring conference. This conference was held at the University of St. Thomas at the same time as the pro-equality rally, and drew about 150 people.



Three things impressed me most about Saturday’s rally for marriage equality. First, the number of people who turned out for it. I’ve heard no official count, but I estimate that at least 250, possibly 300 people were in attendance. Second, I was greatly impressed and heartened by the number of young people in attendance. I’ve noted before at The Wild Reed, that for the vast majority of people under 35, homosexuality and gay marriage are non-issues. Justice and equality, however, are issues that these younger generations are very much energized by and engaged in.

Finally, I was impressed by just how Catholic the whole event was. By this I mean that most of the speakers at the rally made reference to the positive impact of their Catholic upbringing. This upbringing and what the church taught them about justice, compassion, and the value of both faith and reason, informs and inspires them to take a stand for marriage equality.







One of the first to speak at Saturday morning’s rally at UST was Maggie George (above at right), whose uncle, the late James Patrick Shannon was an auxiliary bishop of the Archdiocese of St. Paul/Minneapolis, and a past president of the College of St. Thomas (before it became a university). Maggie was present with her partner Rev. Rebecca Voelkel, Program Director of the Institute for Welcoming Resources of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, and their young daughter Shannon – named after Maggie’s uncle.

“[My uncle] taught me that being a good Catholic meant being truthful, loving richly and deeply and passionately, and always working for love and justice in the world,” said Maggie.

“That’s the kind of legacy and lesson we want for our daughter Shannon,” added Rebecca (pictured with Maggie above and at right). “And it’s how we try to live as Christians, as a family, and as those who work for equality and justice for all people.”

Maggie and Rebecca also asked the University of St. Thomas, Archbishop Nienstedt, the National Organization for Marriage, and the State of Minnesota to “honor the ways in which love has found our family; to respect the ways in which God’s justice and covenant come in different and beautiful ways, and to support the right of all people to say yes to marriage and commitment.”






Above: Alfonso Wenker – a young gay Catholic man, and a 2009 graduate of the University of St. Thomas.

“As a student I was incredibly involved in LGBT organizing,” said Alfonso. (See for instance the previous Wild Reed post, Out and About – April 2007.) “I was told time and again,” he said, “that the University of St. Thomas had a deep commitment to diversity and inclusion, and wanted to welcome LGBT folks on campus. Fr. Dease, the president of the university, told me privately and publicly, that he wanted LGBT people to be welcomed here.”

Allowing the National Organization for Marriage to be on the UST campus this weekend, however, sends a very different message to LGBT students, said Alfonso. That message is: “Our inclusion is not welcome.”


For Alfonso, allowing the anti-equality activists Gallagher and Cordileone on campus signifies “institutional support of an anti-LGBT sentiment.”

“It doesn’t live up to the university’s commitment to diversity and inclusion,” Alfonso noted, “and it ignores the data produced from the university’s most recent climate study that says LGBT populations on campus are suffering.”

Alfonso also introduced his parents who were present at the rally, and talked about the place and role of Catholicism in their lives.

“A core value of our family is being Catholic,” he said. “Being Catholic is as essential to my identity as my being gay is. I can’t separate the two and nor should I have to. As Christians we’re called to the communion table. We’re called to bring our whole selves and to welcome anyone who seeks that table with us.”

“As an LGBT Christian, I should be able to define family in a way that allows me to build the strongest, healthiest life possible,” Alfonso said. “I urge the leaders of the archdiocese and of the National Organization for Marriage to tell the truth: families are stronger when LGBT people can participate fully, honestly, and openly in all aspects of life – including the option to legally marry.”

“I was raised by the Catholic Church,” concluded Alfonso, “a church that taught me to fight for social justice and the ending of oppression for everyone. Our communion table is incomplete as long as we deny LGBT people full rights and inclusion.”





Above: Alfonso’s father, Joe, also spoke at Saturday’s rally.

“It’s very unfamiliar for me to stand before such a large and impressive crowd and speak out in support of equality, dignity, and human rights for all God’s children,” he began. “I’ve been a rebel, but rarely with a cause. I’m really not a protester, activist, or social justice advocate – although I know what all those things are and I do support social justice programs. But I really haven’t been in the front lines fighting for change. What I am is a Catholic, a husband, and a father.”

About his Catholic faith, Joe said: “I was baptized into my faith as an infant, raised in a Catholic family, attended Catholic grade school, married in the Catholic Church, raised my kids Catholic, sent my kids to Catholic schools, and I continue to attend Sunday Mass on a regular basis. My Christian faith and my path through life have blessed me with the opportunity to develop a personal relationship with a God of my own understanding. And that God loves me and you just the way you are. We are all created in God’s image. Our sexual orientation doesn’t matter. Straight, bi, gay, transgender – God loves us all. During this Easter season I have once again been reminded that there is nothing I can do to make God love me any less, and nothing I can do to make God love me any more.”

Joe also talked about being a husband for over 35 years. “I should know a little about marriage,” he said, “but like most things in life I’ve had to learn about marriage the hard way.”

What Joe has learned is quite beautiful and profound.

“I’ve learned that marriage is about two individuals dedicating themselves to each other and to love. It’s about personal sacrifice for the good of each other. It’s about acceptance, respect, forgiveness. It’s about sharing everything you are and have with another person. It’s not about a man and a woman, it’s about two people sharing their undying love for one another.”

Joe also talked about being a dad. “I’m a dad – and not just any dad,” he said. “I’m a very proud father of a successful gay man. My son Alfonso is a protester, he is an activist and an advocate. And he is on the front lines fighting for social justice every day. He’s taught me a lot and for that I’m very proud of him.”

“As a father,” said Joe, “I want my children to be free from discrimination and prejudice. I want their basic human rights to be always respected. I want them to be always seen and valued as individuals. I want them to live by the Christian values my wife and I have passed on to them. And I want my church – their church – to accept and nurture them as they are. If Alfonso finds someone to love and spend the rest of his life with, I want them to be able to experience all that marriage has to offer, including becoming the loving parents of my grandchildren. I want my church to accept and love all of us just the way we are.”





Above: Another speaker at the rally was Jason Raether, a UST law student who represented the student organization known as OutLaw. This group, said Jason, strives to “show a presence to LGBT students on a conservative Catholic campus.”

“A lot of people wonder why LGBT students would want to come to St. Thomas,” Jason said, “especially when the Roman Catholic Church does not have the most sterling gay rights record.” The answer, he said, can be found within the university’s mission statement. “It’s a mission statement that says the school is dedicated to integrating faith and reason in the search for truth, through a focus on morality and social justice.”

“The faith and morality aspect of this mission,” said Jason, “appeals to many students. For them, faith and morality do not provide a barrier to same-sex equality and marriage rights. Instead they provide an inspiration.”

“For others,” Jason said, “the reason and social justice aspects of the mission provide a very strong argument for same-sex marriage rights.”

Jason then went on to talk about how marriage rights for same-sex couples are guaranteed in the U.S. Constitution. “This country was founded on the ideals of freedom, liberty, and justice,” he said. “The government’s inability to recognize marriage rights for same-sex couples is contrary to all three of those principles.”

Jason also observed that supporters of discrimination often base their viewpoints on traditional or moral grounds. Yet he is adamant that such justifications do little to undo the “evil and pain that is caused by discrimination and inequality.” As Americans and as Minnesotans, he said, “we do not value hate, we value love.”





Above: Nick Kor was another current UST student who spoke at Saturday’s pro-equality rally. He lamented the lack of resources on campus for LGBT students, and reminded the crowd that the UST students present at the rally were also protesting the double-standard of the university’s speakers policy, one that did not allow Archbishop Desmond Tutu to speak, but is allowing Maggie Gallagher and Bishop Cordileone to speak.

“We’re here to show that the University of St. Thomas students and the community do care about LGBT equality and marriage equality,” Nick said. “And I think the sheer number of us here today show that.”





Above: Brian McNeill, president of Dignity Twin Cities, the local chapter of Dignity USA, the largest gay Catholic organization in the country, also spoke on Saturday.

He began by reading a part of the preamble of Dignity’s Statement of Position and Purpose.

We believe that LGBT Catholics in our diversity are members of Christ’s Mystical Body, numbered among the people of God. We have an inherent dignity because God created us, Christ died for us, and the Holy Spirit sanctified us in baptism, making us temples of the Holy Spirit and channels through which God’s love becomes visible. Because of this, it is our right, our privilege, and our duty to live the sacramental life of the Church so that we might be more powerful instruments of God’s love working among all people.

Brian also made connections between the church’s clerical leadership’s fixation on denying marriage rights to gay people and the clergy sex abuse crisis.

“It is not a coincidence,” he said, “that one response of the American bishops to this crisis is the well-documented fact that they are pouring money into efforts to stop same-sex marriage in states across the country. It is clear why they are doing this. The clergy sex abuse scandal completely undermines their credibility as religious authorities. So to help restore their credibility they are trafficking in bigotry against LGBT citizens. Like Republican politicians in the South in the ’60s, they are hoping to gain stature by stirring up hate for a minority group.”

“The bishops say they want to protect children,” said Brian. “Well, we all want to protect children, including the children of LGBT couples. And the very best way we can do that is to allow LGBT couples full access to civil and sacramental marriage.”

Brian concluded his remarks by focusing on “the heart of Catholic teaching on sexual morality,” i.e., “the assertion that every sexual act must be open to procreation.” The bishops may believe this, said Brian, but Catholics don’t. He cited a 2005 Harris poll that says 88% of Catholics use artificial birth control. “In other words,” said Brian, “in the privacy of their bedrooms, 88% of Catholic couples defy this central tenet of the Catholic faith . . . and the basis for the Church’s opposition to gay relationships.”

“The great majority of Catholics are on our side if they are honest and they think about it,” Brian said. “That’s why Dignity Twin Cities and Dignity USA are confident that sooner or later the Church will change.”



Above: Brian McNeill and his partner Steve.



Above: Lisa and Brent Vanderlinden, Catholic parents of a gay child.




Above: Monica Meyers, Public Policy Director of OutFront Minnesota.

“I don’t usually do this, but I’m going to talk about why personally I am here today,” began Monica, “I was raised Catholic, and from what I know from my Catholic teaching and what my parents have taught me is that we should be standing up for justice, fairness, equality, and speaking out when things are wrong.”

Monica also talked about the state of marriage equality in Minnesota. “Laws in Minnesota exclusively bar same-sex couples from getting married,” she reminded the crowd.

“I met the person that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with,” said Monica, “and I’m so excited about that - and about getting to have that person in my life who reminds me to be the best me every single day, and who makes me want to fight and be a better person. I feel really fortunate to have found that person.”

Monica shared how she and her partner Michelle went to Canada and got married. Yet when they returned to Minnesota they realized that as a couple they were “strangers in our laws.”

“That really saddens me,” said Monica. “But what gives me hope is that we can change that law very easily. And we can do it! All we need to do is to get more people involved, get businesses, non,-profits, unions, places of worship on board and officially supporting marriage equality." Engaging in such organizing across the state will, said Monica, ensure that "we can truly have equality.”



Above: Monica Meyers (at right) with staff and volunteers of OutFront Minnesota which co-sponsored Saturday's rally and protest with the Catholic Pastoral Committee on Sexual Minorities, Dignity Twin Cities, All God's Children Metropolitan Community Church, and the Institute for Welcoming Resources of the National Gay and Lesbian Taskforce.



Above: Kelly Lewis, OutFront Minnesota’s Community Organizer.



Above: Rev. Paul Eknes Tucker of All God’s Children Metropolitan Community Church.



Above and left: Senator John Marty participated in Saturday’s rally and protest.

Sen. Marty is the author of one of three marriage equality bills currently before the Minnesota Senate. He was also the 2009 recipient of the
Catholic Pastoral Committee on Sexual MinoritiesBishop Thomas Gumbleton Peace and Justice Award. At last year's CPCSM Annual Community Meeting, Sen. Marty spoke eloquently about his ongoing efforts to achieve marriage equality for all Minnesotans.



Above: My friends Jacki and Noelle - with cute little Quinn. When I started delivering my remarks at Saturday’s rally as Executive Coordinator of the Catholic Pastoral Committee on Sexual Minorities, Quinn recognized my voice and greeted me with a few sharp barks! It was quite funny.

Following is the text of my speech.

My name is Michael Bayly and I’m the executive coordinator of the Catholic Pastoral Committee on Sexual Minorities – CPCSM for short.

We’re an independent, grassroots coalition that for thirty years has been working to create environments of justice, respect, and safety for LGBT people and their families within the Roman Catholic Church.

Yes, you could say we like a challenge!

I’m going to be brief this morning as I really only want to say three things.

First, as much as one can apologize for the actions of others, I as a Catholic would like to apologize for the actions of the clerical leadership of the Roman Catholic Church – and in particular this morning, for the inviting to St. Paul of the two anti-equality activists who are speaking just a short distance from here.

Which brings me to the second thing I want to say: Those invited here today by Archbishop Nienstedt to incite discrimination against gay people and to deny them their civil rights, do not speak for all Catholics. A Pew survey from last October clearly shows this, and I can tell you that here in the Twin Cities there are many Catholics – gay and straight – working to reform the church’s thinking on sexuality.

Which brings me to my third and final point: Much of the reason for why Maggie Gallagher and Bishop Cordileon are here today is to do with the Catholic Church’s profoundly impoverished way of thinking and talking about sexuality. Make no mistake: it’s a dysfunctional sexual theology from which flows misogyny, sexual abuse, homophobia, and all kinds of discriminatory attitudes and actions.

I believe that as Catholics we can do better.

As pie-in-the-sky as it may sound, I look forward to the day when office holders like Archbishop Nienstedt join those of us who are already developing an understanding of sexuality that is informed by the experiences of all of us, and by the insights of science. For Catholics, this should not be a radical idea. After all, we have a long tradition of relying on both faith and reason in developing Catholic theology. Yet we seem to have lost that when it comes to homosexuality. And that’s really sad – for gay people, for the church, and for society.

For me, and perhaps for you, the struggle for marriage equality and the struggle for a healthy sexual theology within Catholicism are very much connected. That’s not the case for everyone, of course, and that’s fine. But if it does resonate with you, and you’d like to be an upfront Catholic advocate for marriage equality, then please don’t hesitate to see me afterward to compare notes!

Thank you for listening, and thanks for being here today.










Recommended Off-site Link:
LGBT Minnesotans Rally Against Prop 8 Leaders at U of St. Thomas - James Sanna (TheColu.mn, April 19, 2010).


UPDATE: Maggie Gallagher Steps Down as NOM President - Evan Hurst (TruthWinsOut.org, April 20, 2010).

See also the previous Wild Reed posts:
Catholics Join with Others in Protesting the Visit of Two Leading Anti-Equality Activists
Andy Birkey on the Church’s “Blame the Gays” Fixation
A Catholic Voice for Marriage Equality at the State Capitol
Catholics Join in Nationwide Protests of Prop 8
A Catholic Presence at Gay Pride
300+ People Vigil at Cathedral in Solidarity with LGBT Catholics
A Christian Case for Same-Sex Marriage


Images: Michael J. Bayly (with thanks to David McCaffrey for the photos of me!).